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How to Become a Person Everyone Wants to Know

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Observe. Take notice of how you act and how others act.

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Listen. Instead of talking about how cool you are ask others questions. When you show interest in others they end up wanting to know more about you.

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Be more interesting. Do things differently, mix your life up! If you always say hi to the same people talk to different ones.

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Save it. If someone doesn't ask you something then keep it to yourself. Unless they've told you something about what you want to say.

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Lay back and relax. Don't get all worked up over people. This really turns them off as to wanting to know you.

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Be happy. People want to be around people that make them feel happy and make them forget about their worries.

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Study hard and succeed. People naturally like smart people. Dumb people aren't going to get far in life and you want to get far.

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Take certain things seriously. First of all when it comes to school or being on top of things don't joke and make a fool out of yourself. Casually make jokes and act less stressed out but don't, I repeat, don't slack off. You can be serious and still have fun.

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Take the clues. First, know who you can joke around with and who not. Next, don't make jokes about things that bother them or that they are serious about, respect them.

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Be yourself. A whole lot of people say this and it is completely true. People are attracted to people who have confidence in who they are and aren't so weak that they have to bend who they are for others.

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Be beautiful. Beautiful is not being gorgeous, but being comfortable with who you are and owning it, minus the ego. Love yourself and others.